Am I Depressed?

Depression is more than just feeling sad or going through a rough patch; it’s a mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. Recognizing the signs of depression is crucial for seeking timely help and support. In this blog, we’ll explore key indicators of depression, debunk common myths, and discuss when to seek professional help.

Understanding Depression

Depression is a common but serious mood disorder. It causes severe symptoms that affect how you feel, think, and handle daily activities. It’s not a sign of weakness or something you can simply “snap out” of. Depression requires treatment, much like any other medical condition.

Common Signs of Depression

1. Persistent Sadness or Hopelessness

  • Feeling down, tearful, or experiencing a sense of emptiness or hopelessness that doesn’t seem to go away.

2. Loss of Interest in Activities

  • No longer finding pleasure in hobbies or activities that you once enjoyed, including sex.

3. Changes in Appetite or Weight

  • Changes in weight, whether loss or gain, and changes in appetite.

4. Sleep Disturbances

  • Either insomnia (difficulty sleeping) or hypersomnia (oversleeping).

5. Fatigue or Loss of Energy

  • Feeling tired or lacking the energy to perform daily tasks.

6. Feelings of Worthlessness or Guilt

  • Harboring negative feelings about yourself or feeling guilty over things that aren’t your fault.

7. Difficulty Concentrating

  • Trouble focusing, making decisions, or remembering things.

8. Physical Symptoms

  • Experiencing physical symptoms like headaches, cramps, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause and/or that do not ease even with treatment.

9. Thoughts of Death or Suicide

  • Frequent thoughts of death, suicidal ideation, or attempts.

Debunking Myths About Depression

  • Myth: Depression is just feeling sad.
  • Fact: Depression is a complex mood disorder with a range of symptoms.
  • Myth: Strong people don’t get depressed.
  • Fact: Depression can affect anyone, regardless of their strength or character.
  • Myth: Talking about depression makes it worse.
  • Fact: Talking about how you feel is an important step towards recovery.

When to Seek Help

If you’re experiencing several of the symptoms listed above most of the day, nearly every day, for more than two weeks, it might be time to seek professional help. Depression is a treatable condition, and the earlier you seek help, the more effective the treatment can be.


If you suspect you’re dealing with depression, remember that you’re not alone, and help is available. Understanding the signs is the first step towards seeking the help you need. Mental health is just as important as physical health, and taking care of it is essential for your overall well-being. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional who can guide you through this journey. Remember, acknowledging the need for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. By recognizing the signs and seeking assistance, you’re taking a vital step towards improving your mental health and quality of life.

Final Thoughts

Depression can make life feel overwhelming, but it’s important to remember that it’s a treatable condition. There’s no shame in experiencing depression or seeking help for it. Everyone’s experience with depression is unique, and what works for one person might not work for another. This is why professional guidance is invaluable. A mental health professional can provide personalized care and treatment options suited to your individual needs.

If you or someone you know is in crisis, especially if there’s a risk of harm to oneself or others, seek help immediately. Contact a mental health professional, call a crisis line, or visit the nearest emergency room.

In closing, your feelings are valid, and there is hope. With the right support and treatment, it’s possible to overcome depression and reclaim the joy in life.


Dr. Whitney Legler